How To Turn A Woman On?
Are you sick of assuming what women want?
Are you perplexed about what turns women on?
Let me put your mind at ease by providing three surefire ways to turn women on. These aren’t Kama Sutra exercises. They are a method of attracting her attention and making her want to be around you.
How To Turn A Woman On In Three Steps
I can’t tell you how many times my male clients have come to me completely perplexed about what women want.
But here’s the catch: most women don’t know what they want.
And it isn’t always something sexual that turns them on and makes them feel turned on and attracted to you.
The smallest gestures can sometimes turn on women. The first thing you can do to turn a woman on is to dress appropriately.
Win Her Over With Your Style & Fashion Sense
The way you dress can turn a woman on from a mile away, so keep this in mind before leaving the house.
Men are frequently surprised to discover that women share many of their interests. When you show skin, wear tight (but not TOO tight) shirts and pants, and dress well, women are turned on.
Many women find seeing a man’s forearms and hands very appealing, so wear short sleeves or roll them up and wear a watch to draw her attention where you want it.
a woman inspecting a man
Believe it or not, many women enjoy showing a little leg, so when the sun is out, short shorts are the way to go.
Now, I don’t want to get too graphic here, but grey sweatpants tend to flatter a certain aspect of the male anatomy… *wink wink* nudge nudge
Another school of thought is to dress in a way that reflects your personality. This is the concept of “women adoring a man in uniform.”
Don’t go down to the thrift store and buy some secondhand fatigues; instead, think about dressing up in different ways to turn her on.
For girls who are impressed by that kind of college-boy swagger, this could imply adopting a preppy look. Or you could wear a button-up to imply that you’re a successful business mover and shaker.
Things To Say That Will Drive Her Wild
Women value knowledge and passion in men.
Nothing beats a man who can speak intelligently about a subject that he is passionate about. Make sure it’s also something she’s interested in (it doesn’t have to be politics, the environment, or something equally cliché!).
She’ll be impressed that you can talk about anything intellectual or interesting for an extended period of time.
That could be as simple as explaining what you’re studying in school, discussing a large project you worked on at work, or discussing the latest urban planning experiment you’re interested in… Really, most subjects and topics will work as long as you’re well-informed and enthusiastic about them.
There’s an easy way to turn a woman on in conversation without saying anything at all.
That’s correct, gentlemen… I’m referring to listening.
If you ask her questions about herself and genuinely care about what she has to say, she will be immediately drawn to you because you are not one of those guys who only talk about themselves. This process of active listening will make a huge difference in how she feels about you.
Don’t forget that a surprising and one-of-a-kind compliment can go a long way. She’s been told numerous times that she has lovely eyes. Find something about her that sets her apart from the crowd and make it known.
Don’t be too forthcoming with your compliments, though! It’s fine to use flattery from time to time, but don’t be afraid to tease her.
Turn Her On With Touch
You can begin to incorporate touch into the equation once she is comfortable with your presence and advances. In a passionate embrace, a man and a woman kiss.
Women require more sexual development than men. Teasing her is part of turning her on through touch. It’s as simple as kissing her and rubbing her arm or running your hands through her hair. Consider foreplay.
When you figure out what makes your girl tick, she literally melts in your hands.
Women are aroused by many things other than a naked man, which is good news for you because it means we’re open to new experiences.
These are some great starting points for driving her crazy, but there are some major drawbacks.
What Turns A Girl On More Than Anything Else?
These are the kinds of suggestions I get from my clients that make them swoon. Try them out right now. You’ll be surprised at how simple they are to execute.
Get her out of her own head.
Getting a woman out of her own head is a sure way to turn her on. That is, she must be present in the moment. You can accomplish this by telling her a joke or doing something silly that makes her laugh.
Most women have a proclivity to overthink everything. And when I say everything, I mean everything—from the way the postman looked at her to the tone of a text message from a best friend.
When you spend so much time in your head, you spend a lot of time worrying and stressing over trivial matters. Women’s moods can be affected by this because they are a detail-oriented species.
Your goal in getting her out of her head is for her to concentrate on you and the moment you two are sharing, rather than on the problems of her day.
If you can get a woman to stop thinking about herself, she will have more time to pay attention to you. This may not appear to be the most enticing way to turn a woman on, but it is the best first step.
The mind is the gateway to a woman’s heart. You’ll be well on your way to arousing her if you can penetrate her thoughts.
Take control of the situation.
Taking charge of a situation is one of the most effective ways to turn a woman on because it accomplishes many things.
First and foremost, it demonstrates your self-assurance.
You relieve some of her stress if you can control the situation and make decisions without hesitation. This is a trait that almost all women find appealing, so don’t be afraid to take the lead and play the ‘alpha male’ role.
For example, if you’re trying to decide which movie to see, instead of engaging in a back-and-forth conversation and asking what her preference is, what time she wants to go, and which theater to go to… Simply make the decision and present it as a statement rather than a question.
This also demonstrates that you are thinking about her and know how to make her life easier and more enjoyable.
Here’s an actual example from my experience as a relationship coach of how asserting control over a situation can really drive a woman insane.
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