6 Love Rules for Finding Your Soulmate

 Finding your soulmate is a difficult task. Some people don’t believe in soulmates because it’s difficult enough to find a compatible boyfriend or husband. That’s understandable, but who says there’s only one soulmate for you out there? There could be a large number. Furthermore, far too many people are unsure what a soulmate is. They believe that this perfect person will click with them in every way possible, that it will be instant and obvious, and that their life will be a perfect fairy tale, that they will never argue or disagree with each other, and that they will live happily ever after. That is not entirely correct.

1. Figure Out What You Want

To find something, you must first know what you’re looking for. Set some expectations for your soulmate. Based on previous relationships, you most likely already know what you want. Make an effort to focus on what you want rather than what you don’t want. Do not dwell on the negatives. It’s easy to think “well, I don’t want him to be selfish, I don’t want him to be rude, I don’t want him to be a smoker/drinker”, but instead, focus on the positives like “My soulmate is nice, kind, healthy and altruistic”.

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2. Better Yourself

If you don’t like something about yourself, take the time to change it if you can, or accept and learn to love it if you can’t. It is critical to first focus on yourself and learn who you are, what you like, and how to become the best version of yourself. When you’re satisfied with yourself, it’s time to start looking for soulmates.

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3. Don’t Be Judgemental

When you first meet someone, avoid passing judgment on them and instead give yourself time to get to know them better. On a first date, some people are nervous and don’t know how to act, while others are stressed, and we’re all not ourselves when we’re stressed. Give people the benefit of the doubt and you might be surprised at what you discover.

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4. Get Out More

To find your soulmate, you must be open to meeting new people. Let’s face it, if your soulmate was in your friend group, you’d have met them by now. So go out, tell people you’re single and looking to meet new people, go on blind dates, and let your friends and family set you up with someone they think would be a good match for you. Attend parties, concerts, festivals, and other social gatherings, meet new people, and converse with them.

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5. Be Aware Of People That Surround You

Consider everyone you know. Is there anyone you met but didn’t give a chance to? Is there someone on the outskirts of your friend group who you don’t know very well but keep running into? Perhaps you’ve been ignoring your soulmate all along, or perhaps you never gave them a chance?

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6. Be Ready For Surprises

You never know when you’ll run into your soulmate. It could be someone you didn’t expect to like. Or it could be a stranger you met on a bus and instantly clicked with. Be in touch with your emotions, and if you have great chemistry with someone, be willing to go out of your way to explore that connection. The best relationships are the ones that you have to fight for, and they are usually worth it.

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